Its nice to try out new stuff , its very hard to avoid an embarassing moment in Fiesta, like myself, I tend to wrong chat alot. Give it a shot, shout something nice like " Mage looking for a grinding party, anyone else wants to come along? ". There are bound to be times where you can find a party and sometimes you don't. Don't be embarassed, you can do it ^^ besides who wouldn't want a mage in a grinding party, mages are like the best classes to grind with, even at lower levels.